Pagmasdan ang sarili, 
Nakakulong sa pang-aapi,
Niyurakan na parang walang silbi, 
Sumisigaw ng walang pasubali.

Nasaan ang hustisya,
Ito ba ay malapit na?
Kukumbinsihin ba ang sarili?
O pag-asa'y iwawaglit na.
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Ang buhay ng isang OFW ay hindi madali. Maraming pagsubok at hirap na kailangan suungin upang makamtan nila ang kanilang pinapangarap na buhay pag-uwi ng Pilipinas. Maraming Kababayan natin ang pinalad sa kanilang pangingibang bansa ngunit hindi rin mawawala ang iba umuuwing luhaan. May mga pagkakataon pa nga bangkay na silang umuuwi sa kanilang pamilya. 

Base sa kanilang mga sagot, sa Gitnang Silangan madalas  ay wala silang day-off. Kahit pa nasa kontrata ito, hindi pa rin nasusunod pero sa abot ng kanilang makakaya tinatapos nila ang kontrata. Ang iba naman buong kontrata hindi nakatikim ng day-off.

 Narito ang kanilang mga kasagutan:
Leorem Devera: Malaysia. 

1. Magsimba syempre kaso d ko naman nagagawa tuwing off day.
2. Window shopping and bonding with friends
3. Picnic po syempre magluluto ng paborito nating pagkain pinoy .
4.tapos ang pinakagusto namin libangan Ay maglaro ng bowling or magiingay sa Karaoke.


Pagsawa next plan naman sa beach kami, kasi yun lang naman po ung nagagawa namin dito sa ibang bansa yung magsaya para maibsan ang kalungkutan


Annie Gathalian Agni: Magluto ng Filipino foods, mag swimming at gumala. syempre maglibang, libangin ang sarili.

 Lourdes Shirakawa: Wala nasa bahay lang. Nakahiga

 Tin Sarmiento:  Magmuni muni ano ang pwede gawin para pagkakitaan. Walang oras magpahinga utak palang dami na trabaho iisip anu dapat gagawin sa mga sasunod na araw babasa ng peso sense usapan sa loob mga idea ng mga dpt gawin para sa pag iimpok.

Dorothy Salazar:  Gala galore at kumain.

Lynn Pangan Pascual: Makipag-usap sa aking pamilya, pagkatapos sa araw ng sweldo pupunta ng Batha sa telemoney para ipadala ang allowance ng pamilya.

Daniel Florendo: magtanim ng mga gulay maglinis sa kuwarto ,,maglaba..at kung ano ano pa na pweding gawin,,,,,,bago maglaro sa mga online games sa fb

Osmail Ditchon Mendoza: Tulog tulog lang para fresh uli sa work kinabukasan.
Irvin Bueno Cooronado: Depende sa lugar, yung mga lugar kagaya ng Dammam, Jeddah, Khobar, siguro nagagawa nila ang gusto nila. Madami kasing lugar eh nagba-bike ka lang, yari k na s Pulis, o kaya pag-tripan ka ng mga bata/teenager dito. Kung sasabihin paglilibangan during offs. Once -in-a-blue-moon lang yun, yun eh ngakayayaan mag swimming sa beach habang naghuhuli ng isda. About Videoke and gatherings, BAWAL. At saka it depends on the type of work you had here, pag barya lang ang kita, laging NGA-NGA, pagkakasyahin lang ang pera, na madami d2 dahil wala nga trabaho sa Pinas. Meron nga suweldo ay 700 Riyal lang. So paano mo magagawa yung naka indicate sa taas kung wala kng pera, kya madami dito hindi na lumalabas.
Ailyn Pandio Corpuz: Isa po akong domestic worker dito sa Saudi wala man lang ako day off kahit  one day sa loob ng 7years.  Hindi talaga pare-pareho ang kinalalagyan dito pero ok lang mabait nman mga amo ko. 
Erick Pana: Ang pinakamasap sa day off sa buong araw kausap ko anak ko at asawa ko mas gusto ko pa na ganun. Minsan pag kapag may pera bili ng damit na afford ng budget kakain sa kabayan restaurant sa Al-Khobar.

Tyra Jane: Dito sa Taif walang day-off, nasa bahay lang ako lagi. Kailangan kong magtyaga para sa kinabukasan ng aking mga anak.
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Majority of us spend a lot of time finding a so called right man/right woman. Others really go a certain distance and effort just to arrived empty handed.

In my opinion we cannot have a right people around us if  we don't act like one. We are the reflection of what we will become.

I think the major issue in pursuing our goal to have an ideal relationship mainly our own perception. We set high standards, (there is no wrong setting a good standard but we tend to look for perfection.

Our desire to the best sometimes fail us because we fall short to recognized our worth and limitations. We are human beings but we are dreaming of perfect We are pre-occupied by the ''Cinderella" story yet we forget that we have the power to create our own story. We want a happy ending but we collect "trash" along the way.

First step in attracting a right man is to love our self.  We need to know who we really are, we need to be whole as a person. Be committed to oneself  because the person who is contented with self have and edge in surpassing all the storms. People who have been in bad relationships are usually trying to find something outside themselves to fill up the emptiness, and it will never work. People who are empty attract others who are empty (or who are predators who prey on empty people.

People who are empty are prone to abusive, manipulative, chaotic types who keep them off their pins or they are prone to withholding people who punish them when they don't "act properly. In any event, these types just add to the emptiness. While they might fill the void for a while, they usually make it quite worse in the long run.

Stop hiding your flaws. No one is perfect, so accept the fact that your partner will not be perfect. But do not compromise your values and principles because that is your inner self. Be with someone who bring the best out of you. It is a major plus if the guy you are with inspire you and know the purpose of being. Confidence and authenticity go a long way in life, love and relationships.

Be appreciative. Expressing our gratitude to someone is a sign of maturity.  People love to hear they are appreciated. Avoid comparison, your past relationship is over. Focus in what you have right now and what you intend to be.

You might not believe that the model of a relationship imprinted on your unconscious decades ago can affect your relationships now, but it does. The way you relate to yourself and, subsequently, the way you relate with others, are both strongly influenced by that imprinted standard. Until you can recognize it and move beyond it, you’re unlikely to find your highest choices being met.
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